If You Don’t Want Their Life, Don’t Take Their Advice!

So many people let their dreams and passions sizzle out because of what others in their life have to say about it. If there is one thing in my life that has been a complete game changer for me, it is the fact that for the most part I can give two flying f*cks what anyone else has to say about my life. Even with that sentence some people are bound to be pissed off.

How dare Amoya use such profanity?

Please stop letting other’s opinions STOP you from upleveling and kicking ass every second of the day. Please don’t let others’ limiting beliefs and fear hold you back and all your freaking greatness!!

This post is so freaking important that I am going to have to post it before sending it off to my editor because you absolutely need to hear this right now and I need to write this right this second.

DO not waste another second worrying about what someone has to say.

Seriously.

Do you admire how they are living? Do you want your life to look like their life? Probably not!

So don’t worry about their crap.

Yes! This applies to family too. Actually, for a lot of people, the number 1 naysayers in their life are their very own family members.

Let me be clear. If I had listened to others, I would not have done half the things I have done in my life.

I wouldn’t have left my abusive marriage.

I wouldn’t have sold all my possessions.

I wouldn’t have pulled my kids out of school.

I would’t have breastfed my daughter for over 3 years.

I wouldn’t have gotten off the 40 plus pills I was put on throughout my life to manage my depression.

If I had listened to what others in my life and even internet strangers had to say, I would not have found the joy that was always within me but was held down by a lot of fears that were not even my own.

RELEASE THAT SHIT!

The other day in my Single Moms DO Travel Facebook group, a mom posted with hurt and frustration that her mother was not being supportive of her travel dreams. I felt her post on so many levels. I have been there. I get it.

Let me tell you something, Momma.

Lean in.

You are already rockin’ it. Especially my single mommas. You are already conquering so much in your day-to-day life.

Let’s flip it. What do you want in life? What are your hopes and dreams? I don’t care what your mom’s or your grandma’s hopes and dreams are for you.

I want to know what lights YOUR soul on fire!

Take a paper and pen and write out what your dream life looks like. Write it as if you are already living it. Feel it completely. Do not hold back. Just let that sh’t flow. It doesn’t matter how crazy it sounds write it down anyways.

Now, go be the woman who is living that life right now. Would that woman care what anyone has to say about her being her absolute authentic self? Hell no! Go do it. Rock it and then let me know how good it feels to not care what anyone has to say as you create the life you were meant to live.

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