In my travels, I often encountered misunderstandings. Some were surprised at my lifestyle. Others were dissatisfied with how I don't sit in one place, go to work on a schedule, and don't bake pies.
But more often, I encountered other single mothers who had lost all faith in themselves. They perceive the title of a single mother through the prism of pain and resentment and consider themselves infringed and inferior. I understand them, even though I don't take it upon myself.
To my great regret, when you say that you are a single mother, everyone looks at you with sympathy, imagining that exhausted woman who can only rest when she goes to bed late at night to wake up again at dawn. But it's not. Every time I prove that single mothers can be happy, full of life, and have bright emotions.
By the way, some single mothers believe that they cannot even take a loan. And again, this is not true. If you need financial help - you can get it!
In fact, loans for single mothers are not much different from loans for any other parents and people without children. Even if you are raising a child alone or several, the "credit world" does not slam the door in front of you.
Let's figure it out. For example, you need a personal loan. Why don't you go and get it? If you have a good credit history and your income is at a sufficient level, the bank has no reason to refuse you, definitely not because you do not have an official partner. At the same time, the loan will not become more expensive, its conditions will not change, and no one will point the finger at you.
In fact, all types of credit are available to single mothers. Payday loan? Easy. Personal loan? Easy. Auto loan? Why not? Mortgage? Well, by fulfilling all the conditions of creditors, you can afford it.
You can still count on appropriate loans if you have a bad credit history. Loans for a bad story are, of course, usually more expensive; sometimes, it is more profitable to choose a secured loan than an unsecured one. But in any case, they are available to you, regardless of how many children you have and whether you have a husband.
Do not assume that raising a child alone makes you weak and unable to do something. Remember: you can do absolutely everything. Absolutely.